“I’m not going to punish my dog for giving your child a warning”: 23-year-old woman gives admonition to family to leave her post-surgery dog alone while hosting dinner, her cousin’s daughter doesn’t listen

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    Aita for not punishing my dog and kicking out family?

    "I asked you guys to leave her alone"
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    My 23(f) dog Baja (f) just got surgery. I hosted a family dinner with aunts, uncles, grandparents, cousins, nieces and nephews. While everyone walked in I asked
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    that Baja be left alone on the couch in her spot. Welp one of my cousins (J) daughter (A) decided to go by baja and bother her while I was in the kitchen. I
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    figured sense I asked the adults they'd make sure their kids left her alone. (A) had bothered Baja and Baja let out a warning growl, I quickly came to the living room
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    and told (A) to leave Baja alone as she wants to rest. (A) was crying because Bajas growl scared her. (J) then gets mad at me saying "is that all you're going to do!? She
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    snapped at my daughter and scared her! She's traumatized and probably won't ever go by a dog again!" I then snapped back "I'm not going to punish my dog for
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    giving your child a warning. I asked you guys to leave her alone as you walked through the door, you should've watched your child!" Other family members
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    chimed in and said I shouldn't let Baja act like that towards kids and she does deserve a punishment, others sided with me. I then yelled at everyone "This is Bajas
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    house, she let out a warning, she didn't snap her teeth at (A) she didn't bite her, she let out a warning because she wasn't comfortable, she didn't feel safe
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    and she has every right to feel safe in HER HOME, so if you guys have a problem with me not punishing my dog because she let out a warning and I will say this again BECAUSE SHE DIDNT FEEL
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    SAFE IN HER HOME, then you may leave HER HOME, I will not treat my dog like she is any less than because (J) couldn't watch (A) and is being a brat for Baja
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    not wanting to be touched!" I was told from (J) and her family that I was an AH, so AITA !!!!!!EDIT!!!!!! for those saying I shouldn't have had a gathering. It was planned
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    MONTHS ago her surgery was not, my house was the best place to have it since my kitchen is bigger than others. I would've hosted it in the back yard but
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    unfortunately it rained. If I had canceled the dinner I would've wasted a bunch of money that wasn't mine (family traveling for this reunion). I couldn't carry her upstairs or else I would've hurt
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    her in the process. She could barley walk up the small ramp to the couch. (A) is 11 years old. BAJA IS DOING GREAT NOW:) !!!!!!! EDIT 2!!!!!! was just told that (A)
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    was mistreating Baja and was told to stop and leave her alone. She didn't listen. 11 year olds know RIGHT FROM WRONG. Her 3-7 year old cousins listened better
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    than her. They were told once to leave Baja be (even when they were by her they were just petting her and she didn't mind but their parents wanted to let Baja rest) and they listened!
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    IAmNoMan87 NTA, they were told. Reminds me a little of when my dog was a pup. My friend (C) was sitting while I
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    was at work, when she took him for a walk she stopped at the local shop. As she was securing him outside, a Karen came along with her kid asking to pet him.
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    C: I'd rather you didn't, he's just a pup and is still a little bitey and his little teeth are quite sharp.
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    She went inside and when she came out the kid was crying. K: That creature needs put down!

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